Birthdays are always about the birthday girl or boy — as they should be — but oftentimes that means their siblings can feel a bit left out. So this year, why not try and involve them in the birthday party planning? Perhaps an older child can be in charge of taking pictures or videotaping. If the party has an entertainer, one of the siblings can introduce them when it’s time for the show. Other tasks could be passing out refreshments, taking the presents, or cutting the cake.

Even though they may seem like little things, getting siblings involved will go a long way towards making them feel appreciated and involved in the celebration.